Day 2 of 30 day blogging challenge!

I receive questions from clients regarding how to find the perfect man or woman and what they need to do to improve their chances of attracting someone into their life. Often, people are so keen to get together with someone that they rush into a relationship only to find out that a few weeks. months or even years down the road, they discover they no longer wish to be with the same person and don't even know why they got together in the first place. They then have to go through a process of either ending this relationship, spending time being unfaithful and feeling guilty about this, or remaining in the relationship and putting up with less than what they want and truly deserve.

It is so important to first understand who you are and what you want from life. As large a challenge as this may seem, it is not too difficult to realise that whilst it can be a lengthy process it is so worth doing because unless you know yourself and truly love yourself, this will always interefere with your ability to attract the perfect person for you into your life. Ask yourself a few questions and see what insights you gain from doing this:

Where do I want to go in life?
What do I want to be?
What do I want to do?
What do I want to have?
What do I really want my life to look like?

Begin to visualise what you want in your life using all of your senses: taste, hearing, sight, etc. (including the senses that many don't talk about i.e intuition and "gut feeling")
(for more tips like this and incredibly rich information for singles, check out the Conscious Dating website where you can download free audios and articles that will really help you in your quest for the love of your life.)

Be as specific as you can possibly be and write down what comes up. Doing this exercies will allow you to begin the process of re-training your subconscious mind into understanding what it is you truly want in your life, and you will start to attract various things that are in alignment with this.

I'd love to hear from you when you have completed this to see what insights you have. I will then send you some more tips on how to attract the love of your life!

I look forward to hearing from you!

ps. Join me over at http://www.truelovemanifesting.ning.com where there are more tips like this available and a chance to meet other single like minded people.

30 day blogging challenge

I've signed up to the 30 day blogging challenge that has been set by Connie Green. I love writing, yet so many times am stumped for what to say. When I am away from my pc I can think of a million and one witty things to mention and have opinions and views that I would like to share with you, yet when it comes to sitting in front of the pc, I often find I have nothing to say. So, I thought, what a great opportunity to just write every day and not think too much about what I'm saying and see what happens during the next 30 days.

As the run up to Christmas approaches I am noticing more and more the amount of lights cropping up in my street. usually the neighbours across the road from me are the first to have their house decorated and they often have the most lights compared to anyone else. This year was the first year I have had my decorations up before them! An absolute first. I never get decorated until about three days before Christmas and get really excited once the lights are lit (after hours of searching for them and untangling the wires!) I watched "Elf" last night with my son because I enjoy the humour and inevitable positive ending of this happy film. Will Farrell is his usual jolly self and his belief in Santa is almost contageous!

How can I help you find the love of your life!

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I would like to get to know you some more and find out how I can be of service to you with regard to your relationship and dating needs. I have created a short survey that should only take a few minutes to complete so that I can learn some more about who you are and what you need to help you find the love of your life. I am offering you a free 45 minute relationship coaching session to see how relationship coaching can help you to learn to become a more successful dater, learn some essential relationship skills, uncover your limiting beliefs that could be holding you back from meeting the love of your life and create a vision for your life.
I spent many years experiencing the confusion of relationships and wondering why things didn't work out when it always started out so great. Over the years and with training from The Relationship Coaching Institute, I have learned how to scout, screen sort and test potential dates. I would really like to share with you this incredible information because I want you to discover how to make good choices in your love life so you improve your chances of finding the perfect partner. I do this because I know first hand how painful it can be when your relationships fail you, when you spend time and energy investing in a relationship that is going nowhere, the confusion and sadness that ensues when you spend so much time, money and energy dating and turning over rocks and finding only frogs.
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Deepak Chopra: What I've Learned About Love

I promised to share interesting articles with you when I first started this blog and I have to say I came across this one just now and was instantly drawn to it. The article is on Eharmony and is by Deepak Chopra. He shares his views about love and I believe it is one of the most beautiful articles about love that I have read in a while which is why I felt compelled to add it here for your enjoyment and education. Please follow this link which will take you to the article. I would love to hear your comments and views about what he says.

Deepak Chopra: What I've Learned About Love